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Everything I'd tell you over a second glass of wine.

Dating & Relationships
Why Autumn Might Be the Best Season for Dating
Cosy cafés, candlelit dinners, gorgeous clothes and a perfectly legitimate excuse to sit a little closer… maybe Autumn has been dating season all along.

Dating & Relationships
The three-date rule nobody follows
Rules are for people who don't trust themselves. Here's what I use instead, and why it works far better than a countdown.

Confidence & Self-Worth
How to be the most confident woman in the room (without saying much)
Confidence isn't volume. It's the quiet certainty that you'd be perfectly fine if you left right now.

Dating & Relationships
Being Single Is Officially the New Fashion – and I Think It Rather Suits Me
There was a time when being single felt like something you were supposed to fix. The older I get, the more I wonder whether we’ve been looking at it completely wrong.

Lifestyle
How I Decompress After Being Around People
Because I love people, but I also need quiet, cosy time to recharge and feel like myself again.

The Tease
Five things I learned from a very bad first date
He brought his mother's opinion, a spreadsheet and no wallet. I brought notes. You're welcome.
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